
Much of God's
covenant with Israel of old dealt with human relations. Various and
sundry laws pointed out how the Jew was to conduct himself among his
peers. One of these admonitions was, "Thou shalt not follow a multitude
to do evil"
(Ex. 23:2).
This was a very important decree; it showed the danger of peer pressure
and pointed out very explicitly the dangers of being led astray by evil
men. Peer pressure was an important factor in their lives; it has been
from that time to the present. And perhaps as never before, peer
pressure is an issue we have to wrestle with.
A leading educator
noted that peer pressure is the strongest influence exerted on young
people today. He stated that in most cases it is twice as strong as the
influence of home and family, and yields a far greater influence than
religion. I share this educator's convictions. All young people want to
be accepted by their peers. And if to do so means disobeying parents and
selling out personal convictions, some are willing to do so just to
be a part of the bunch. In dealing with young folks and their problem of
peer pressure, we often quote and expound on
1
Corinthians 15:33
-- "Evil companionships corrupt good morals." I contend this is a very
important verse dealing with this subject. This admonition does caution
against the dangers of peer pressure being exerted by those who are void
of spiritual convictions and virtues. Let us continue to warn our young
people of the dangers of their associates that rob them of their
virtues.
But is all peer
pressure centered in young people? Does this pressure cease when we
become adults? Well, certainly at all stages of life there are peer
pressures put on us by those with whom we mix and mingle day by day. The
Bible is not silent on this matter. Men and women of God have always
faced immense pressures in dealing with their peers. And when God has
spoken, He has always done so with a stern warning against letting our
associates rob us of our moral integrity.
One of the most
striking examples of this occurred in the life of Peter. Peter is one of
our favorite Bible characters. He was truly one of Christ's most
ardent followers. We hear him saying, "Even if I must die with thee,
yet I will not deny thee"
(Matt. 26:25).
We hear him declare, "Lord, with thee I am ready to go both to prison
and death"
(Luke 22:33).
But on that fateful night of the arrest and mock trial of the Lord,
Peter "followed afar off"
(Matt. 26:53);
he stood with the wrong crowd, the enemies of the Lord
(Matt. 26:69).
And upon being asked of his allegiance to Christ, he cursed, swore, and
denied that he even knew Him
(Matt. 26:69-74).
Peter, when alone in a crowd of unbelievers who were the enemies of
Christ, relented to peer pressure.
What a lesson for
the Christian today. I contend that when we are alone, with the wrong
crowd, those with no regard for the Lord nor spiritual values, we are at
the most vulnerable moment of our spiritual life. And so often, like
Peter, the pressures from our peers lead to our downfall.
There are numerous
other examples in the New Testament on this subject. Peer pressure
played a leading role in the rejection of Christ by the rulers of the
synagogue
(John 12:42,43).
The Scriptures tell us they believed on Him, "but because of the
Pharisees they did not confess it, lest they should be put out of the
synagogue. For they loved the glory that is of men more than the glory
that is of God."
Likewise, peer
pressure was the deciding factor in the heinous crime of Herod
(Matt. 14:1-12; Mark 6:23).
Herod feared and respected John, but his oath, along with "them that sat
at meat with him" (his peers) prevented him from backing down on his
promise, and resulted in the vile deed of having John the Baptist put to
death. In this we see the influence and power of wicked men and the
insidiousness of peer pressure.
But there is
another side of the coin of peer pressure. Not all the characters of the
Bible collapsed under the pressure of their associates. Many stood,
often alone, in the face of severe pressures put on them by others.
Let us ever be aware
of the immense pressures put on us by our peers, especially those with
no regard for God and spiritual values. And let us profit from the
mistakes others made and redouble our efforts to not yield to these peer
pressures as they did.