The real measure of a Christian lies on the
inside. Jesus repeatedly warned those who admired the hypocrites of that day
that it was “out of the heart” that one’s actions arise
(Mt 12:34-35, 15:18-19).
Later, our Lord confronted these men with the plainest and strongest words
of His ministry. “For
you cleanse the outside of the cup and dish, but inside they are full of
extortion and self-indulgence. Blind Pharisee, first cleanse the inside of
the cup and dish, that the outside of them may be clean also”
(Mt
23:25-26). In every
application we make of God’s word we must first start with the heart.
Does it
Matter What a Christian Wears?
The subject of clothing is a
highly personal one and one that commonly provokes great emotion. Many who
claim to be Christians place this subject as off-limits to the Lord and
especially to those who teach His word. How many times have I heard someone
say: “It doesn’t matter what you wear, but what is inside your heart is all
that matters!” Is that really what the scriptures teach?
The scriptures plainly address the
relationship of our hearts to what we wear. “In like manner also, that women
adorn themselves in
modest
apparel, with shamefacedness and
sobriety;
not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;
But (which becometh women professing
godliness) with good works"
(1 Timothy 2:9-10 KJV). What is the
condition of the heart described in this verse, and what is the kind of
dress that will
follow?
Essential
Elements in the Heart of the Christian
Modest apparel is a product of
shamefacedness
and sobriety,
qualities
that ought to be in the heart of every
Christian. The English word “shamefacedness” is a good translation of the
Greek word “aidos.” Greek lexicons define this word as meaning “the idea of
downcast eyes; a sense of shame or honor, modesty, bashfulness, reverence,
regard for others, respect.” The word “sobriety” indicates “soundness of
mind, self-control.” In essence, the Christian will not seek to draw the
attention of others to themselves through their clothing. They will not be
trend setters, seeking the latest fashions regardless of the message
conveyed to others by those fashions.
Consider the importance of shame. Shame
comes from previous instruction concerning right and wrong. For shame to
profit you, there are two things you must posses: proper teaching and a good
conscience. Someone has likened the conscience to an alarm clock. If you
heed its alarm and then act, then you will be “awakened” and thus helped to
fight sin. However, if you chose to ignore it, by “going back to sleep,” or
in others words, by continuing in your sin, then you will, in time, no
longer hear the alarm of your conscience. Paul described the terrible
consequences of those who reject sound teaching as “speaking lies in
hypocrisy, having their own conscience seared with a hot iron”
(1 Timothy 4:2).
Too Much
Clothing or Too Little
Shame will keep a Christian from seeking
attention by distinctive displays involving “broided hair, or gold, or
pearls, or costly array”
(1 Timothy 2:10 KJV).
It also will avoid attention by having too little clothing, which is a great
problem in our culture.
The scriptures teach that public nakedness
should always produce shame. When Christians had given in to a practice of
sin, God likened the shame that they should have felt as being like the
expected shame found in physical nakedness. God described them as being:
“wretched, miserable, poor, blind, and naked.” He then urged them to “buy
from Me gold refined in the fire, that you may be rich; and white garments,
that you may be clothed, that
the shame of your nakedness may not
be revealed; and anoint your eyes with eye salve, that you may see”
(Rev 3:17-18).
In the scriptures, nakedness is
insufficient clothing, not a complete absence of clothing. The priest, while
clothed, could still reveal his “nakedness” by not properly covering from
“the waist to the thighs”
(Ex 28:41-42).
In the Garden of Eden, after the first sin, Adam and Eve were
still naked
when they made the equivalent of men’s swimming trunks (Gen
3:7, 10-11)! God provided sufficient
clothing when he had made them “tunics of skin”. This tunic is defined in
lexicons as being: "generally with sleeves, coming down to the knees." If
you want to be sure to avoid nakedness, then this example ought to provide
us a safe guide to follow.
You Clothes
Convey a Message
The Old Testament describes the “attire of
a harlot” (Prov
7:10; Gen 38:13-15). A woman can
dress in such a way as to encourage men to pursue immorality with her. Here
is where many women fail to understand how their dress can affect men. The
scriptures give emphasis towards the woman concerning her dress
(1 Tim 2:9-10)
and give emphasis towards the man in how he looks at a woman and thinks
(Mt 5:27-30).
As a rule, men are more susceptible to visual stimulation, and as a result,
the modern day pornographic industry has geared its primary attention to
men. Ladies, please do not judge your clothing on “how it looks to me,” but
also be open to teaching concerning how it affects others.
Clothing
during Worship
It ought to go without saying that men and
women should always dress modestly in public settings and especially when
gathering together to worship God. In recent years, with the advent of the
“non-traditional” services, has come the philosophy of “come as you are.” It
is common in these gatherings to see an open display of immodesty by those
who claim to be Christians. I understand that for the new Christian, and
certainly for the visitor from the community, that they may not yet have
received the proper teaching to guide their consciences. But when a
gathering of Christians has become a demonstration of a people that no
longer “know how to blush,” then a serious examination of hearts needs to
take place (Jer
6:15; 8:12).
Should we then have a dress code? When we
have shamefacedness and sobriety in our hearts, along with a willingness to
talk with mature Christians about these things, then I am sure our clothing
will reflect it. When we come to worship with the people of God with a heart
of reverence and love, with a desire to pursue holiness, then our clothing
will reflect it (Heb 10:23-29).
Be honest, what message does your clothing
reveal about your heart?