“This know also, that in the last days
perilous times shall come. For men shall be lovers of their own selves,
covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents,
unthankful, unholy, Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false
accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good,..”
( 2 Tim.
3:1-3)
Paul, inspired by God, points to times
that would come In the Last days, which would not be pleasing to God nor
beneficial to man -- troubling times! Of course, we recognize that the
“last day” is all the Christian era, from Pentecost forward. However,
character and behavior of people described is so evident in our day! At
times any of us may easily become involved in behavior that is
not
good. Therefore, we need to be careful! Let us consider one of the
behaviors Paul mentioned in his list.
Among the characteristics itemized is
being “false accusers.” Perhaps we’ve seen cases where people were
charged with having done something they were not guilty of. As children,
we may have tried to shift blame at times, and that inclination may crop
up in our adult years. It’s never easy to admit that we did something we
should not have done. However, the best policy is always to acknowledge
the wrong, seek forgiveness, reconciliation, and correction. The cost
may seem to be more than we want to pay at the moment, but that’s the
best time to pay: The cost will increase with interest, as we postpone
the correction.
Accusing falsely, however, is something
we ALL need to be very careful so as not to be guilty of. I believe
brethren, at times, are guilty of this: It can/does arise from a number
of factors. Let us look at a few:
1. One can be careless, and charge one
with saying, doing something, having a motive, that he/she does not
really have. There’s the need to be careful!
2. One can be suspicious, and when
something happens, be too quick to say: “Yes, that’s him/her, I have
known him/her for a long time, and that’s in line with what I understand
about that person.”
3. Misunderstanding can/does lead to
false accusation. A failure to put forth the necessary effort to see
exactly what one is saying, where he/she is coming from, the basis for
the claims. It’s easy to misunderstand a person we don’t like in the
first place, perhaps we’re eager to “catch” such a one in a wrong! It’s
easy in the heat of controversy, to say things carelessly, and then
allow pride to keep us trying to JUSTIFY
(Cf. Lk. 10:29)
ourselves. If we overstate our case, deviate slightly, fail to express
ourselves clearly and are challenged, let us humbly consider the
objection, and if we are guilty, admit it seek correction. Let us be
sure before we accuse, and eagerly accept apology.
4. Beloved, let us be careful to state
our case clearly and be willing to listen to any criticism --so that we
understand what the real point of difference is, before we began to
accuse one. When we fully understand the critic’s point, and if it is
off base, then let us kindly but firmly stand for the truth of God’s
word, restating our stance and showing how it is in accordance with
God’s word!
Let us never back down on something
that God has expressed plainly. Let us never give in to something that
is not true. However, let us always be willing to reconsider our way of
expressing a matter, with the possibility that it may could and perhaps
should have been stated in a better way. If I am rejected and opposed
for standing on God’s word, then let me never be unwilling to so stand.
If I am caused to defend my manner of stating a matter or doing
something, then may I be humble, considerate, and prayerful, before I
become too dogmatic.
False accusations are hurtful to every
one involved. Most of all, such will keep one from heaven, if not
corrected.
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