University cities are exciting places –
especially at the beginning of each school year. Young adults descend on
this area with high hopes and dreams for the future. For Christian
students college is a time to learn to be a responsible adult. There
will be wonderful experiences mixed with some extremely frustrating
moments. Our personal decisions render the consequences, good or bad. To
help us consistently make the right judgments, let us consider a
youthful David. He displays three qualities that can help young people
to grow up spiritually.
David was an industrious young man.
When Samuel was told to go to Jesse’s home and anoint one of his sons as
the next king in Israel, David was not present. Seven sons passed before
Samuel but none of them was the one God had chosen. Upon further inquiry
Samuel discovered that the youngest son, David (a teenager), was caring
for the sheep in the field. Samuel had David brought to him and he
anointed him the next king. Staying busy in constructive things
frequently helps others but it also fills the “empty time” that can
breed evil thoughts and actions. Later when David became king he had
some leisure time that he misused by committing adultery with Bathsheba.
This sin ultimately created a firestorm in his family. Too many young
people today have too much “extra time” in which they can get into
trouble looking at pornography on the internet or associating with the
wrong people in chat rooms. God wants young people to enjoy their youth
but he does not want them to forget Him.
(Ecc.11:9 – 12:1)
Humility is perhaps the most important
quality in serving and referencing God. David was a humble young man.
Once while King Saul was pursuing David, he unknowingly entered the very
cave where David and his men were hiding.
(1 Sam.24:1-22)
It looked like The Lord had delivered Saul into David’s hand. Some of
David’s own men actually made this argument to him. David did go so far
as to clip off a piece of Saul’s robe while Saul was indisposed.
However, David soon felt guilty for this because Saul was the Lord’s
anointed. (1
Sam.24:5-6) A short while after
this David emphasized his smallness compared to Saul. “After whom has
the king of Israel come out? Whom do you pursue? A dead dog? A flea?”
(1 Sam.24:14)
Humility is fundamental in pleasing God and influencing others for good.
To be arrogant and lead people astray is serious.
(Matt.18:6)
A sincere heart is one of the most
attractive qualities David possessed. Today many young men see their
persona as being a drinker, a smoker, rough, rude, or manipulative.
David was a “real man” who fought a “real giant.” He didn’t brag about
his own abilities before Goliath, the giant, but told him that God was
the force that would help him defeat him.
(1 Sam.17:45)
Also, the worldly woman
(Prov.7:10-23)
is in stark contrast to the Godly woman.
(1 Tim.2:9-10).
Those things that are highly esteemed by men are an “abomination” with
God.
(Lk.16:15) If you want to be
successful as a young adult follow David’s example by adding these three
qualities to your life.