Much of God's covenant with Israel of old dealt
with human relations. Various and sundry laws pointed out how the Jew was
to conduct himself among his peers. One of these admonitions was, "Thou
shalt not follow a multitude to do evil" (Ex. 23:2).
This was a very important decree; it showed the danger of peer pressure and
pointed out very explicitly the dangers of being led astray by evil men.
Peer pressure was an important factor in their lives; it has been from that
time to the present. And perhaps as never before, peer pressure is an issue
we have to wrestle with.
A leading educator noted that peer pressure is
the strongest influence exerted on young people today. He stated that in
most cases it is twice as strong as the influence of home and family, and
yields a far greater influence than religion. I share this educator's
convictions. All young people want to be accepted by their peers. And if to
do so means disobeying parents and selling out personal convictions, some
are willing to do so just to be a part of the bunch. In dealing with young
folks and their problem of peer pressure, we often quote and expound on
1 Corinthians 15:33 -- "Evil companionships corrupt good morals." I
contend this is a very important verse dealing with this subject. This
admonition does caution against the dangers of peer pressure being exerted
by those who are void of spiritual convictions and virtues. Let us continue
to warn our young people of the dangers of their associates that rob them of
their virtues.
But is all peer pressure centered in young
people? Does this pressure cease when we become adults? Well, certainly at
all stages of life there are peer pressures put on us by those with whom we
mix and mingle day by day. The Bible is not silent on this matter. Men and
women of God have always faced immense pressures in dealing with their
peers. And when God has spoken, He has always done so with a stern warning
against letting our associates rob us of our moral integrity.
One of the most striking examples of this
occurred in the life of Peter. Peter is one of our favorite Bible
characters. He was truly one of Christ's most ardent followers. We hear
him saying, "Even if I must die with thee, yet I will not deny thee"
(Matt. 26:25). We hear him declare, "Lord, with thee I am ready to go
both to prison and death" (Luke 22:33). But on that fateful night of
the arrest and mock trial of the Lord, Peter "followed afar off"
(Matt.
26:53); he stood with the wrong crowd, the enemies of the Lord (Matt.
26:69). And upon being asked of his allegiance to Christ, he cursed,
swore, and denied that he even knew Him (Matt. 26:69-74). Peter, when alone
in a crowd of unbelievers who were the enemies of Christ, relented to peer
pressure.
What a lesson for the Christian today. I contend
that when we are alone, with the wrong crowd, those with no regard for the
Lord nor spiritual values, we are at the most vulnerable moment of our
spiritual life. And so often, like Peter, the pressures from our peers lead
to our downfall.
There are numerous other examples in the New
Testament on this subject. Peer pressure played a leading role in the
rejection of Christ by the rulers of the synagogue (John 12:42,43).
The Scriptures tell us they believed on Him, "but because of the Pharisees
they did not confess it, lest they should be put out of the synagogue. For
they loved the glory that is of men more than the glory that is of God."
Likewise, peer pressure was the deciding factor
in the heinous crime of Herod
(Matt. 14:1-12; Mark 6:23). Herod feared and respected John, but his
oath, along with "them that sat at meat with him" (his peers) prevented him
from backing down on his promise, and resulted in the vile deed of having
John the Baptist put to death. In this we see the influence and power of
wicked men and the insidiousness of peer pressure.
But there is another side of the coin of peer
pressure. Not all the characters of the Bible collapsed under the pressure
of their associates. Many stood, often alone, in the face of severe
pressures put on them by others.
Let us ever be aware of the immense pressures
put on us by our peers, especially those with no regard for God and
spiritual values. And let us profit from the mistakes others made and
redouble our efforts to not yield to these peer pressures as they did.